Dating for disfigured
Then there are the poor sods who try not to do it because their religion tells them it’s wrong.
What is wrong is sexual repression, actually, as it leads to bad behaviour and poor health.
If you pose for sexy pictures, you could even send them to and sell them!
• Looking at desirable people and feeling turned on.
Here’s a reading list for starters: The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability edited by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette 2006.
Sensitively written with many direct quotes from disabled people on how to change preconceived ideas about sex in order to gain more pleasure. Susan is one of Outsiders patrons, with an interest in disability. Modern and wide-ranging, with a section on disability at the end.
If you want to see a disabled woman, try Loree Erickson’s Want.• And finally, a much cheaper option, is masturbation, which can be extremely pleasurable and some say more pleasurable than sex because you don’t have to worry about the other person!However, this isn’t always the case — some disabled people are too depressed to wank, and others physically unable, because they cannot reach, move their arms, or don’t have enough strength to hold a sex toy for long enough.Click Here It always amazes me how so few disabled use their spare time waiting for appointments or for the plumber to come round to fix the boiler, to read up about sex.Maybe looking at books about non-disabled people enjoying sexual things you cannot do, feels depressing.