Dating what are red flags
Narcissists like to be associated with high-status people and institutions.
They think they’re the best and want to surround themselves with the best. Does your date think only his or her school is the best, and require the best car, the best table at the best restaurant, the finest wines, and wear expensive labels, or name drop public figures they know?
But then all of a sudden, a red flag pops up that makes you reconsider the entire thing. That depends on how serious a red flag it really is. That kind of minor disagreement isn't what I'm talking about, since it just amounts to a small thing you may not have in common.Listen to what your dates say about themselves and past relationships. Pay attention if they admit to serious shortcomings, commitment issues, infidelity, criminality, addiction, or abuse.Equally important, notice if you feel anxious or uncomfortable, pressured, controlled, ignored, or belittled.Amazingly, some people do, as if their listener doesn’t exist.This is a tell-tale sign that you will feel invisible in the relationship.