Pros and cons of dating multiple men

It is familiar to love each other despite our differences and despite how hard it is to get along sometimes. Dating the d-bag is familiar to me in the ways I’ve learned to interact with men.Dating the d-bag is familiar to me in the ways I’ve learned that love is something to be earned and that even if he treats you bad, he still loves you.The awareness a tool for understanding and manipulating his captive audience.

Being strong for other people is something that is familiar to me.The outspokenness a mask for unapologetic tactless, rude and inappropriate outbursts.The self-assurance a cover for the inability to look inward and question one’s own motives or role in any given situation.It is familiar to me to put myself last, and other’s first regardless of the costs. They are habits that are easy to slip back into like a pair of tattered pj’s that I’ve been holding on to for too long because they feel that good.But the thing is, those pj’s don’t keep me warm anymore.