Tips for dating a shy guy
The first step is to understand that being shy and reserved is a part of his nature and has nothing to do with what he feels towards you.
Do not think of it as arrogance, these people take time to warm up to people and feel comfortable enough with someone to be themselves around them.
Once you get to the depth part, then you can actually start figuring out if this woman is someone you can see a future with, or just one night.
😉To say that meeting women is just a numbers game is to completely take the human aspect out of it. The minute you start looking at talking to women as a “numbers game” is the minute you fail.
After noticing this about you, these supposed women will then approach you, and it takes all of the pressure off of you.
William Chou, from The Good Men Project, on the other hand, says that after many attempts at this style of picking up women, this reverse-psychology strategy has almost never worked.
Chou believes that the approach is only one part of the puzzle.Yeah, sure, you got the courage to go up to her, but You have to establish a base connection of mutual trust and–I hate to say it–that doesn’t happen with these “cold-calls.”All my girlfriends & I agree, when a guy just walks up to us, there’s not enough time for us to figure out if any “sexual chemistry” is there, because everything is happening so fast. Try to establish a connection before you ask her out, and throw this “cold-calling” advice out the window.Allow me to illustrate this point with a story of my own: One time this guy asked me to let him into the campus library because his card wasn’t working. that night thinking, A couple weeks later, though, we were still in touch.This might be the most enticing piece of advice for the shy guy.This type of mantra gives you some courage for a couple of seconds–and it also gives you the false sense that all you’re missing is the courage.